infidelity : its an epidemic !

Just recently I was viewing some of my fellow bloggers pages and came to know that Monica and her long time fiancee rapper Rocko seperated from what sources say was his infidelity. This really disturbs me, it seems that no family, woman or man can live on and be happy without infidelity snatching it from the grasp of their hands. From high school, to college, to the real world infidelity seems to be playing a major role in our society && in our relationships. Why? What makes these men step out on their diamonds to eff with, yes i said eff with a ruby or some dawg on cubic zirconium. Lets take Monica, a one hip-hop princess turned into an R&B divaa; a gorgeous, God-fearing woman with her head on straight, 2 beautiful children && a career that is about to TAKE OFF! now what would make you step out on that. Situations such as these make me believe that love is something that is inevitable! When you love someone CHEATING is something that you dont do. grant it. everyone makes mistakes nobody is perfect but when you continue to do the very thing that will tear a happy home apart you then MA'AM/SIR are wrong! Clearly, this is something that I feel very passionate about && have felt for quite sometime, soo i had to ask one of my male friends about this topic, im sure it will not only answer my questions about this, but yours as well. here we go.

Q: why do men cheat?

A:I dont cheat and I never have so I dont know, but I feel that a man cheats with a woman that they know will allow them to. Men dont have enough self control to be a one woman man.

Q:have you ever cheated?

A: No

Q:often times people like to say that when the sex isnt good it causes men to cheat. how do you feel about that? and do you feel that is okay?

A:I think it causes them to have curiosity to want to test the waters to see what else is out there and I dont feel that its okay. If its a man who basis their relationship on sex and it begins to fade, it makes them start to think they need to go out and see what else is there.

Q:why not just break up with the girl? why cheat?

A:I agree with that statement, if you dont have enough self control I dont think that you should even be in a relationship, but I do have friends who have been in that situation and their usually in  love and they dont want to break the girls heart.

Q:how do you feel about men who cheat on their fiancees & wives?

A:I feel thats the worse thing that you could do, when you get married and makes those vows you should keep them. Marriage should be built on honesty and trust.

Q:would you give the same answer about cheating when it applies to men who cheat on their fiancees and wives?

A:When men get married I feel that they do have some type of self control but when something goes sour in a relationship then thats when men step out.

Q: why not try to work it out the problems && kinks?

A: i honestly dont know.

sheesh !!

 i guess we will never know the real reason behind the reason why men and women cheat.

I WILL continue to search and get to the bottom of this epidemic.

its getting ridiculous..

more interviews coming soon! [trust!]

kisses till later

xoxoxo her.highness,your.highness